Growing up in a city where rules are only meant to stay in the books, it’s easy to find people who willingly and consciously break rules on street every day. My experience has made me come across some of the most awfully unconscious drivers at streets of Dhaka. Changing lanes is one of those rules that is almost always ignored by people here. I guess what we do outside, also reflect how we are on the inside. Although definitely not the first time, when I saw this happening yesterday, something did clicked my mind.
There were four lanes on the road, and drivers showing off their zigzag skills by going from one to the other. Once the stop signal was lit, cars became static. We were approaching the traffic from behind, and I saw these four lanes, waiting to pick one. So I came across this interesting view. We’re supposed to be on the right most lane, which also was heavily congested, so we had to be on a longer cue, or of course, like everywhere else in this country, there were shortcuts. Each lane on the left seemed like a better option compared to the one on its right. So the leftmost lane was the best shortcut. But of course, it would be breaking the law, not that that means much here. So I stared at the four lanes, and asked myself, what do I do? – change the lane and take the shortcut, or be in the longer cue.

I decided to be on the right lane, and stick to the rules. I’m not particularly a fan of shortcuts, and always had an odium for such; which sort of mostly added to my frustration, as life probably is never fair. But then I saw this incredible message, as to what happened. The left most lane had mostly rickshaws, and as they take much less space compared to the cars, the lane always seems like an easier option. But when the signals go green, and we all started to move, it was our lane that went ahead. The rickshaws, that makes the left lane attractive, also is the reason why movement is much slower. Therefore, cars behind cant go any faster. When cars move, they rapidly pickup pace, and go forward, the rickshaws can’t keep up. And that’s the realization, how something so regularly seen be related to life.
Those who seek for shortcuts, can only go a certain distance. There is always the time, where hard work, and real skills come into the game, and to be ultimately be successful, you need to know everything that came from that journey, not just the shortcuts to move around issues. A growing number of people I know, have mastered the art of taking shortcuts. People have started to look for the immediate benefit something brings, rather deciding to struggle and do something that’s right (just like sticking to the right lane). Our lack of interest in looking at the philosophical aspects to such big and small things, have made us crippled.These days, falling for someone for the advantage of immigration or status, going for easy scholarships to universities that have no values, getting masters degrees to make resumes look good, and easy PhDs for business cards – such shortcuts are common. The real good things take more than ’shortcuts’ or changing lanes; it takes time, effort, and determination – many of which only comes from pure desire. With learning not to look for shortcuts, or cheap benefits that kills whatever part of humanity is left in us, we must start to admire something for which we are so willing to go through hardships. While hardships, may not always guarantee success, it almost certainly does guarantee that without it, we, as humans, are fake personalities who never really dealt with the toughness that life can bring, let alone learning to live with it.
We must learn to see through such temptations (shortcuts), and be strong to our belief, our morals, our dreams, and work on a plan to work it through. I think you can’t bargain on somethings in life, and taking shortcuts will only help if you have learned not to look inside yourself. Question yourself, are you compromising with the truth, trying to make yourself believe that you need to take a decision, follow a path, because you always wanted it, or only because it has a certain advantage to it? Learn not to take shortcuts, and along with it, learn sticking to your morals and working it out the hard way, because real winners never quit.